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Rider Confidence: A simple way to make the changes you want

by | Sep 24, 2022 | Rider Confidence, Rider Mindset | 0 comments

Understanding how we process sensory information can significantly influence how we experience nerves, anxiety, and fear when riding our horse. We use our ‘internal representational systems’, which refer to the primary ways we perceive and internalise our experiences through our senses, to make provide information about our experiences. Our mind filters and uses this information to make meaning of our subjective experience, as a point of reference for the future.

Our internal representational systems are visual (seeing), auditory (hearing), kinesthetic (feeling), gustatory (tasting), and olfactory (smelling). The processed information from each of these senses will impact how your unconscious mind processes your world and have an impact on how you feel about yourself, your horse and riding. 

Visual (Seeing)

If you tend to think in pictures, you might visualise potential problems while riding, like imagining a fall or picturing the horse becoming spooked. These vivid mental images can make you feel more anxious. To manage this, you can refocus your mind on visualising exactly what you actually want to happen, in as much detail as you can. Your mind really doesn’t know the difference between what’s real and what’s imagined, and will respond to precisely what you tell it! So using this to your advantage and use your brilliant imagination to create a visualised scenario where things happen exactly as you want them to, and where you manage any surprises with ease and confidence. 

Auditory (Hearing)

If you’re sensitive to sounds, the external noise of the horse’s hooves, your horse’s breathing, or sounds from the environment will all add to how you experience riding your horse. Internal sounds, such as your self-talk are also an important factor, since we often don’t realise quite how we speak to ourselves in our mind! Listening to calming music (where it’s safe to do so, obviously!), and positively managing your self-talk before and during your ride will help boost your confidence.

Kinaesthetic (Feeling)

If you are someone who is highly attuned to your feelings and emotions, you might be acutely aware of every physical sensation in your body and how it makes you feel. You might be aware of a knot in your stomach, tightness in your throat, or a very real feeling of having your legs turn to jelly! These type of physical sensations quickly transmit an alert to your mind, triggering nerves, anxiety and even fear. Practising deep breathing or other relaxation techniques can help you manage these physical sensations and reduce your anxiety.

Gustatory (Tasting)

As riders, the sense of taste is one we don’t often think about, and it’s closely tied to memory, where certain flavours can trigger emotional responses. I know of riders who chew minty gum before they ride (never chew gum while riding, as it is a choking hazard), and that minty sensation on their tongue can anchor feelings of readiness and confidence. Being mindful of what you eat or drink before riding and choosing flavours that you find comforting or refreshing can help trigger a shift in how you feel. 

Olfactory (Smelling)

Certain smells can evoke powerful emotional responses. I don’t know about you, but I love the slightly warm, sweaty smell of horses who have just worked (that sounds weird, doesn’t it?!). As a child, I dreamed of the smell horses, of leather tack, and even now the first fly spray of the summer brings a reminiscence of happy hacking days. Find those smells which make you feel good and remind you of happy times, then make use of these whenever you can. 

Recognising which of these sensory inputs resonates with you most will provide you with simple tools to improve your riding confidence. By consciously adjusting how you seek out and use these sensory inputs, you can help yourself feel more in control and less anxious while riding. 

Preferences

While each of us might have a preference for one or more internal representational systems, such as visual, auditory, or kinesthetic, it’s important to note that we don’t exclusively use just one; our mind gathers and uses information from all of them. Think of it like having a favourite tool in a toolbox; even though you might prefer one tool, you still use the others when the situation requires it.

For instance, even if you primarily process your experience in a primarily visual way by imagining scenarios and pictures in your mind, your mind will still also pay attention to what you hear, the physical sensations you feel, the tastes and smells that surround you. Each sense provides a different piece of the puzzle, contributing to a fuller understanding and experience of your environment.

This means when you’re riding your horse and trying to manage anxiety, even though you might focus on using your preferred sensory channel, such as visualising calm and successful rides, you’ll also benefit from tuning into the sounds that calm you, the feel of the horse beneath you, and even calming scents or flavours. Using a combination of all your senses can help create a richer, more grounded experience that can be more effective in managing your nerves.

Simple Tips

Visual

Focus on shifting your mindset by vividly imagining positive outcomes. Instead of letting your mind linger on potential challenges, picture yourself riding smoothly, handling challenges with ease, and finishing your ride successfully. This practice of visualisation can help build your confidence and reassurance. 

Auditory

Integrate calming sounds into your daily routine to help soothe your nerves. This could be as simple as listening to the radio while you tack up, or repeating positive affirmations to yourself such as “I am calm and in control” or “I trust my abilities and my horse.” These auditory cues can help create a mental environment of calmness and positivity.

Kinesthetic

Use physical relaxation techniques to reduce anxiety and physical tension. Before riding, try doing some gentle stretches, deep breathing exercises, or progressive muscle relaxation—where you tense and then relax different muscle groups. This not only relaxes your body but also prepares your mind for a more comfortable and focused ride.

Gustatory

Choose flavours that evoke a sense of calm and enjoyment for you. This might mean having a peppermint or a piece of dark chocolate before you ride or sipping herbal tea like chamomile which is known for its soothing properties. These tastes can trigger positive sensory memories and help calm your nerves.

Olfactory

Introduce a comforting and familiar scent into your riding environment. This could be applying a dab of lavender oil on your wrist or adding a few drops of tea tree oil to your riding gear. The smell of chamomile can also be soothing. These scents can significantly enhance your emotional state by triggering positive associations and reducing stress, creating a more relaxing atmosphere for both you and your horse.

By actively engaging these sensory strategies, you can better manage your emotions and enhance your overall riding experience. Each tip is designed to help you focus, relax, and enjoy your time with your horse, making your rides more pleasant and successful.

 

In conclusion, understanding how your internal representational systems influence your emotions can help you manage your nerves and anxieyt around riding. By recognising your preferred internal representational systems, you can use different strategies to feel calmer and more in control, so you can become a more confident rider. 

In this article, I’m going to share one of the simplest and effective tools that you can use to shift your mindset, to start building your riding confidence on positive beliefs and positive evidence, and I think you’ll love it! So the concept, the idea, the task that I want to pose to you is something called ‘Start, Stop, Continue’. 

When we’re working on building our confidence around riding, it’s easy to get stuck in the challenges, in the problems, in the blocks. This super simple exercise will help you take a step back from the challenges that you’re facing, and to help clarify your next steps. 

This is a really simple way to evaluate what’s going on, to make some decisions about how to move forward, and to inform your planning around how you can make progress on the short, medium, or long term goals that you have around your riding. 

How is this technique useful?

This is a really simple technique, which you can apply to absolutely anything in your life, and it works in a way to foster respectful, honest, and meaningful communication between people (and your horse!). The exercise will help you to get some real honest, open feedback on what’s working and what isn’t, and it helps facilitate a balanced reflection of strengths or good things that are happening, areas for development, and opportunities for progression for you and your horse, as they relate directly to your mission statement, your values around riding and your goals as well. 

Step One

So let’s break this down… The question I want you to ask yourself is, what could I start doing right now that will help me on my way to becoming more confident, positive and more empowered as a rider?

I’d like you to list the things that you could do, the options available to you, and what could you do that would be beneficial to you and your horse? What are you not doing currently that you could restart, do more regularly, explore, or get some training or coaching around, that would help you build a better relationship with your horse or build your confidence? What could you start doing that would help you enjoy your riding more?

Step Two

Next, ask yourself, “what could I stop doing”? (Remember, this is not an opportunity to beat yourself up for doing things which aren’t helping you right now!) 

I want you to ask yourself objectively, not emotionally, what could I stop doing that’s going to be helpful to me or my horse. 

So what things are not currently working for you? Sometimes we carry on doing those things that are unhelpful, as a form of self sabotage and as a way of building a self-fulfilling prophecy that we never achieve our goals because we can’t because of X, Y, Z, which then becomes a limiting belief.

What unhelpful habits will you stop reinforcing? What opportunities and possibilities would open up if you could stop doing that thing, whatever it might be.

I want you to ask yourself the question, “what could I stop doing” in an objective, non-judgmental way, because ultimately we are trying to let go of those habits and those things that we do either physically or in our mind, which get in our way. 

Step Three

The third question I’d like you to reflect on is “what could I continue doing, that is helping me become more confident?”.

Think about those things that are constructive, that you’re doing already, that are really helping you to make progress towards your short, medium or long term goals. You can apply this across anything in your life, but in terms of your riding confidence and mindset, what will you continue doing to keep improving how much you enjoy and find fulfilment in riding?  Consider also how you will make these continual processes an automatic part of your daily routine; 1% improvements each and every day inevitably add up to huge transformations over time.

It can be so powerful to actually jot down your answers and your thoughts in response to these three steps, and once you start writing, I’m sure there’ll be other things which open a door to lots more information and thoughts and considerations, which will help you on your path to becoming a more resilient and confident rider.

I’d love to hear from you in the comments below, if you’ve found this useful or if you have any questions! I originally shared this technique with members of my Crack the Confidence Code Membership, during one of my weekly live training sessions with the group, so if you’d like to get help with growing YOUR riding confidence so you can go and do all of those amazing things you dream of with your horse, then click HERE to join my awesome community. 

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