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How To Be Confident When Riding a New Horse

by | Feb 22, 2021 | Horse Riding, Rider Confidence, Rider Mindset | 0 comments

Understanding how we process sensory information can significantly influence how we experience nerves, anxiety, and fear when riding our horse. We use our ‘internal representational systems’, which refer to the primary ways we perceive and internalise our experiences through our senses, to make provide information about our experiences. Our mind filters and uses this information to make meaning of our subjective experience, as a point of reference for the future.

Our internal representational systems are visual (seeing), auditory (hearing), kinesthetic (feeling), gustatory (tasting), and olfactory (smelling). The processed information from each of these senses will impact how your unconscious mind processes your world and have an impact on how you feel about yourself, your horse and riding. 

Visual (Seeing)

If you tend to think in pictures, you might visualise potential problems while riding, like imagining a fall or picturing the horse becoming spooked. These vivid mental images can make you feel more anxious. To manage this, you can refocus your mind on visualising exactly what you actually want to happen, in as much detail as you can. Your mind really doesn’t know the difference between what’s real and what’s imagined, and will respond to precisely what you tell it! So using this to your advantage and use your brilliant imagination to create a visualised scenario where things happen exactly as you want them to, and where you manage any surprises with ease and confidence. 

Auditory (Hearing)

If you’re sensitive to sounds, the external noise of the horse’s hooves, your horse’s breathing, or sounds from the environment will all add to how you experience riding your horse. Internal sounds, such as your self-talk are also an important factor, since we often don’t realise quite how we speak to ourselves in our mind! Listening to calming music (where it’s safe to do so, obviously!), and positively managing your self-talk before and during your ride will help boost your confidence.

Kinaesthetic (Feeling)

If you are someone who is highly attuned to your feelings and emotions, you might be acutely aware of every physical sensation in your body and how it makes you feel. You might be aware of a knot in your stomach, tightness in your throat, or a very real feeling of having your legs turn to jelly! These type of physical sensations quickly transmit an alert to your mind, triggering nerves, anxiety and even fear. Practising deep breathing or other relaxation techniques can help you manage these physical sensations and reduce your anxiety.

Gustatory (Tasting)

As riders, the sense of taste is one we don’t often think about, and it’s closely tied to memory, where certain flavours can trigger emotional responses. I know of riders who chew minty gum before they ride (never chew gum while riding, as it is a choking hazard), and that minty sensation on their tongue can anchor feelings of readiness and confidence. Being mindful of what you eat or drink before riding and choosing flavours that you find comforting or refreshing can help trigger a shift in how you feel. 

Olfactory (Smelling)

Certain smells can evoke powerful emotional responses. I don’t know about you, but I love the slightly warm, sweaty smell of horses who have just worked (that sounds weird, doesn’t it?!). As a child, I dreamed of the smell horses, of leather tack, and even now the first fly spray of the summer brings a reminiscence of happy hacking days. Find those smells which make you feel good and remind you of happy times, then make use of these whenever you can. 

Recognising which of these sensory inputs resonates with you most will provide you with simple tools to improve your riding confidence. By consciously adjusting how you seek out and use these sensory inputs, you can help yourself feel more in control and less anxious while riding. 

Preferences

While each of us might have a preference for one or more internal representational systems, such as visual, auditory, or kinesthetic, it’s important to note that we don’t exclusively use just one; our mind gathers and uses information from all of them. Think of it like having a favourite tool in a toolbox; even though you might prefer one tool, you still use the others when the situation requires it.

For instance, even if you primarily process your experience in a primarily visual way by imagining scenarios and pictures in your mind, your mind will still also pay attention to what you hear, the physical sensations you feel, the tastes and smells that surround you. Each sense provides a different piece of the puzzle, contributing to a fuller understanding and experience of your environment.

This means when you’re riding your horse and trying to manage anxiety, even though you might focus on using your preferred sensory channel, such as visualising calm and successful rides, you’ll also benefit from tuning into the sounds that calm you, the feel of the horse beneath you, and even calming scents or flavours. Using a combination of all your senses can help create a richer, more grounded experience that can be more effective in managing your nerves.

Simple Tips

Visual

Focus on shifting your mindset by vividly imagining positive outcomes. Instead of letting your mind linger on potential challenges, picture yourself riding smoothly, handling challenges with ease, and finishing your ride successfully. This practice of visualisation can help build your confidence and reassurance. 

Auditory

Integrate calming sounds into your daily routine to help soothe your nerves. This could be as simple as listening to the radio while you tack up, or repeating positive affirmations to yourself such as “I am calm and in control” or “I trust my abilities and my horse.” These auditory cues can help create a mental environment of calmness and positivity.

Kinesthetic

Use physical relaxation techniques to reduce anxiety and physical tension. Before riding, try doing some gentle stretches, deep breathing exercises, or progressive muscle relaxation—where you tense and then relax different muscle groups. This not only relaxes your body but also prepares your mind for a more comfortable and focused ride.

Gustatory

Choose flavours that evoke a sense of calm and enjoyment for you. This might mean having a peppermint or a piece of dark chocolate before you ride or sipping herbal tea like chamomile which is known for its soothing properties. These tastes can trigger positive sensory memories and help calm your nerves.

Olfactory

Introduce a comforting and familiar scent into your riding environment. This could be applying a dab of lavender oil on your wrist or adding a few drops of tea tree oil to your riding gear. The smell of chamomile can also be soothing. These scents can significantly enhance your emotional state by triggering positive associations and reducing stress, creating a more relaxing atmosphere for both you and your horse.

By actively engaging these sensory strategies, you can better manage your emotions and enhance your overall riding experience. Each tip is designed to help you focus, relax, and enjoy your time with your horse, making your rides more pleasant and successful.

 

In conclusion, understanding how your internal representational systems influence your emotions can help you manage your nerves and anxieyt around riding. By recognising your preferred internal representational systems, you can use different strategies to feel calmer and more in control, so you can become a more confident rider. 

Riding a new horse can be pretty daunting. Many of us have ridden the same horse/s for years and the prospect of the unknown can affect our confidence levels (even if we would usually consider ourselves quite confident riders).

It’s completely understandable to feel this way and isn’t uncommon for us to feel a bit nervous getting on a new horse. There are also a few key reasons why we may be in the situation of having to get on a new horse which can include;

New horse at a riding school

Riding a new horse in your lesson can feel like a step into the unknown, but it doesn’t have to feel scary.

Test riding a horse before buying

When you are looking to buy a new horse, at some point you will get on and see whether he is for you. This can feel tricky, however my tips below will help you overcome any nerves.

Riding a horse for someone else

On occasion, you may be in a situation where you have to ride a horse for someone else. A horse that you have never ridden who is unfamiliar to you. This might be because the owner has gone away and left you in charge. This can be pretty nerve-wracking too.

So, what can we do to change this? How can we train our brain to become more confident when riding new horses? Check out my top tips below to help you on your way.

Ask questions 

Asking questions is good! Find out as much as you can about the horse in advance. How old are they? What is their current workload like? What is their level of experience? Current management regime? Does the horse have any unusual behaviour? What is the horse really good at or what do they struggle? These are all great questions. In addition, you may want to find out about the horse’s way of going, their attitude and how the rider is managing the horse. This way, you’ll start to get a picture of what the horse is like, and how you could approach riding him.

Watch someone else ride 

Watching someone else ride the horse first can do wonders for your confidence levels. It will give you a good idea of the horse’s way of going and temperament without you having to leave the ground yourself. Ask the rider to do everything you want/would like to do with the horse. This will give you a thorough assessment of the horse from ground level and indicate the likelihood of how well you will be able to manage the horse yourself.

Take your time

Taking your time with horses is key. Don’t feel like you need to be rushed into doing more than you are comfortable with. This is often where accidents occur and can simply be avoided by taking things at a steady pace. Pushing yourself too quickly can cause you to panic and feel like you are losing confidence. Remember, you get to choose what you do… or not.

Visualisation 

Visualising can be a great tool for getting your confidence in check. When you visualise what you want to happen you create a happy story that boosts your confidence and changes your mindset to a more positive one. Imagine yourself riding this horse and it feeling easy and enjoyable. The more detail and positive emotion you can add to your visualisation, the more effective it will be.

Alter egos

One of the best things you can do when tackling riding a new horse is to ride ‘as if’ you are already a confident rider. Pretend to be that confident rider you’ve already wanted to be. Maybe that’s one of your favourite dressage riders or showjumpers? When you take on this persona ask yourself, what do you see, hear and feel? Step into this rider’s shoes and become them!

Familiarity

Familiarity with a horse goes a long way to boosting our confidence and the way we ride. When you know a horse quite well it is much easier to have that trust and belief in yourself and your horse. When you first ride an unfamiliar horse, check the key controls ‘buttons’. Can you stop and go? Does the horse turn easily? Spend time figuring out clear lines of communication, then you are more likely to feel confident and enjoy each other’s company.

Exploration

Always maintain an attitude of exploration when you’re riding, i.e. “let’s see what I can find out about this horse”. Treat the situation as an interesting fact-finding session, finding out what are the horse’s strengths and weaknesses… and what are yours? What steps could you take to build a better partnership?

Vocalisation

So no, you can’t talk to your horse during a dressage test, but when riding a new horse for the first time it can make all the difference between feeling calm and confident and a complete bag of nerves. Talk to your horse and yourself. Make friends with them. Talking your way through what you are doing helps to keep you focussed and in control, effectively easing your nerves and boosting confidence levels.

Breathe 

Breathing can be a problem for riders at the best of times. When we are feeling nervous or apprehensive we often forget to breathe whilst riding. This can leave us feeling short of breath and panicky. Practice different breathing techniques and figure out what works best for you. Focus on the rhythm and quality of your breath.

Focus

Our focus can have a clear impact on how we feel about our riding. Focussing on the positives can keep us engaged and occupied which helps us think less about our fears and nerves. Focus only on the things that you can control, i.e. your thoughts, emotions and actions, then let go of everything else.

Progress at your own speed

Everyone learns and progresses at their own speed. There is no hard and fast rule about how much time it should take to get used to a new horse. Some riders find they progress quite quickly whilst others take longer and find building a bond with a new horse more challenging. You are in control of you, which means that you get to decide what happens next.

Ask for assistance

You should never worry about having to ask for help. If you feel more comfortable having someone walk alongside you for a while, or you’d prefer to wear a body protector or air jacket (or both!), then do it.

Reflect

Once you have ridden the horse, reflect on what went well, and consider how it could be even better. Use it as a learning experience to inform how well you’re doing with your riding and confidence and where you should focus your development going forward. This gives you a good plan of what you can work on next time you ride.

Lastly and certainly not least….

Remember, you always have a choice about what happens, and who knows you could achieve!

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